It's been one of those months.
You know, the trying-to-get-your-energy-back type.
I am finally able to get out of the house.
For a short time each day, then I have a nap.
But its a start, and one I'm quite happy with.
My brain doesn't work that great right now, so little outings are good, LOL.
My brain seems to be in neutral. I'm still a bit light-headed and wobbly. (From that post-partum recovery, body getting back to normal thing) And it doesn't come up with anything when asked to react. No thoughts, just static.
Which is good. Because when I go out, I see babies everywhere. And all the moms in my prenatal group are pushing their new wee ones around in strollers.
And I'm not. Which logically should be okay, since I do daycare for a living, and I'm looking forward to going back to working with little ones everyday in January. So I'll get my baby fix.
I'm learning that the brains reaction to loss has nothing to do with logic.
Feelings just bubble out, with no common sense attached.
I now hold my breath everytime my hubby drives out of the driveway, because if a car hits him, he could die you know. I hold my breath when the kids run down the stairs, because they could fall and hit their head and die you know.
I'm mad at the moms that get to hear their babies gurgle, and coo, and cry, even though I would never wish that they couldn't.
I cry just because I feel sad all of a sudden, not because anything happens to make me think about it all. And I cry because everything reminds me of it.
I'm happy when I talk to someone and they don't mention it, because I'm tired of thinking about it. And then I cry because I didn't think about Christopher, and I would never wish he didn't happen, and I don't want to disrespect him by not thinking about him.
I am actually doing well. Really. I feel good, and I'm getting outside.
Life is getting back to normal.
Which is good.
Because grieving is exhausting.