I have always had a terrible time with saying goodbye.
In highschool, I had a very hard time letting go of my childhood and accepting that I was growing up and liked different things.
Moving away from home just about killed me.
Watching my kids grow more independent was so hard (although I like it now!) because my role as mother changed.
When we moved, I left the years of babies behind. I think that's why I wanted another baby so badly, so I could go back into that comfortable past and delay the changes just a few more years.
But I feel ready to face change now. I'm so glad I had this chance to experience pregnancy again, I would have always felt like I was missing something without it. And now I can move on and live the next chapter of my life.
This is a poem I wrote before we moved:
I miss the fish swimming
in my uterus universe.
I miss feeling like the
embodiment of femininity.
I miss the anticipation of
new worlds coming into being.
I miss knowing that I will be
someone's sun, moon, and stars.
Now I feel insignificant
and unessential.
I know mothers are important,
but it doesn't feel that way
once babies grow into children.
That's really how I felt for awhile, and I'm glad that I'll be able to get past that stage now.